How to shift your mindset about your filmmaking career.
Whether you know it or not, you’re playing one of two games with your filmmaking journey.
The bad news is that if you’re playing the wrong one, it’s likely causing you frustration, disappointment, stress, and anxiety. The good news is that you can start playing the other game right now (and start shedding all of that frustration, stress, etc.).
To figure out which one you’re playing, take a look at the two sentences below and select which one best describes you:
- I’ll be happy with my career after I accomplish __________________.
- I’m happy with my career now and want to keep doing it.
If you resonate with #1, don’t worry, you’re in good company. It’s where I’ve spent most of my career – playing a finite game.
The goal of a finite game is to win. There is a set of clearly defined rules & a clearly defined end to the game. Take baseball for example: at the end of 9 innings whoever has the most runs wins. End of game. There’s a winner and a loser.
However, if you resonate with #2, you’re in an amazing spot because you are playing an infinite game.
An infinite game, unlike a finite game does not have a known ending. In fact, the goal of the game is to continue playing.
So what does this brief dive into game theory have to do with making films for a church?
Well, kind of everything.
The truth is that we’re all playing an infinite game (perhaps the term “eternal” would be a more Christian way to put it). However, when you think you’re playing a game that has an end in sight you’ll likely be tempted to cut corners, work extra hours, undervalue the people around you, not take care of your body, get addicted to caffeine, and pour all of your emotional energy into your work. You’re literally sprinting and giving all you’ve got to reach whatever finish line you’ve placed in front of you.
In the marketplace, this is called “success” and is celebrated in books and magazines. In the church, this is called being “sold out” and is celebrated from the pulpit.
Unfortunately though, for the rest of us, we never reach most of those finish lines, so it’s always an illusive carrot that we’re dangling in front of ourselves to fuel our striving. However, if you do finally make it to one of your arbitrary finish lines at the end of a sprint, you’re in for a rude awakening when you look up and see that you’re actually running a marathon and that sprint that you just “won” was only a 100 meter section of the race. That great feeling from the win goes away and you either need to find a new sprint to win to try and get that feeling back, or realize that you need to adjust your strategy for the long term.
So where do you find yourself today?
Here’s a very insightful and inspiring talk that Simon Sinek gave at my local San Diego Creative Mornings that blew my mind (and inspired this post):